Is Being Gay a Sin? Why Did God Create the Devil? & How to Hear God’s Voice, FR!

Hey hey girlie! So—confession time: I’m technically supposed to be on a 6-week podcast break. Yup. Resting, recharging, all the things.

But then I got three questions from you guys—real, deep, raw questions that I could not ignore. Like, I actually sat with them, prayed through them, and knew…I had to jump back on the mic.

So consider this a little bonus episode for the brave girls out there—the ones asking hard questions, leaning into truth, and chasing after God with their whole heart. Whether you’re walking through confusion, craving answers, or just want someone to talk it through with you—this episode is for you.

We’re going there today. Let’s talk:

1. Is being gay a sin?

2. Why did God create the devil if He knew he’d rebel?

3. How do we actually hear God’s voice?

   
   

Let’s go.

Question 1: Is Being Part of the LGBTQ Community a Sin?

This first question came from a girl named Faye all the way from Germany. She said:

“I am Faye from Germany. I’ve got a question I wanna ask you. Is being part of the LGBTQ community a sin? Because I know that there are some passages in the Bible that kind of say that, but it also says that God made each of us perfect.”

First—Faye, I LOVE your heart. Your courage. Your honesty. Thank you for trusting me with this. Let’s answer this not from opinions or social media trends, but from Scripture—with truth and love.

Truth 1: Yes, God made you. And He made you with great care.

Psalm 139:13–14 says:

“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”

You are NOT an accident. God made you on purpose, with purpose. You are deeply loved by the God who knows every hair on your head.

BUT—we also have to understand something else Scripture teaches...

Truth 2: Every human has been affected by “the fall.”

In Genesis 3, sin entered the world through Adam and Eve. It didn’t just break their relationship with God—it distorted the human heart, our desires, our thoughts, and even how we see ourselves.

Romans 3:23 says:

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”

That includes me. That includes you. That includes everyone—gay, straight, or otherwise. We all carry a nature that leans toward sin, which is why we all need a Savior.

Truth 3: Scripture is clear about same-sex sexual behavior.

Let’s look directly at what the Bible says:

Leviticus 18:22

“Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.”

This was a clear command in God’s moral law, not just cultural law. Some argue it's outdated, but the New Testament confirms it still matters.

Romans 1:26–27

“Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.”

This passage shows that same-sex actions—not just attraction—go against God’s design for sexuality. It’s not just an Old Testament thing.

1 Corinthians 6:9–11

“Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men… will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.”

This is key: Paul says “that is what some of you WERE.” Which means: lives can change. There is hope, healing, and restoration in Jesus for everyone.

Truth 4: Attraction is not the same as action.

Hebrews 4:15 says:

“We do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin.”

Temptation is not a sin. Acting on temptation is. And Jesus gets it. He faced temptation too, and He shows us it’s possible to overcome by God’s strength.

Truth 5: Your identity is not your feelings—it's who you are in Christ.

Culture says your feelings define you.Jesus says your new life in Him defines you.

2 Corinthians 5:17 says:

“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

You are not your label. You are not your temptation. You are a daughter of God, invited into a full, joyful life of surrender and holiness.

Can someone experience same-sex attraction and be a Christian?

Yes. If they choose to honor God by not acting on those desires. That’s hard. It can feel lonely. But it’s possible, and it’s beautiful. There are many believers who walk that path faithfully.

No matter your struggle—whether it’s sexuality, addiction, insecurity, or pride—Jesus offers healing, identity, and grace.

Question 2: Why Did God Create the Devil If He Knew He’d Rebel?

Maddi asked this one, and girl, I am SO proud of you. These questions are how you build real faith.

Here’s what we know:

Truth 1: Lucifer was created good.

Ezekiel 28:12–15 describes Satan’s original beauty and role as an angel:

“You were the model of perfection, full of wisdom and perfect in beauty… You were blameless in your ways from the day you were created till wickedness was found in you.”

God didn’t create Satan as evil. He created Lucifer with freedom—and Lucifer chose rebellion.

Truth 2: God values love—and love requires choice.

Love is only real if it’s freely chosen. So God gave His creatures—angels and humans—free will. Without choice, there’s no relationship.

But free will also meant some would choose rebellion.

Truth 3: God had a rescue plan from the start.

Revelation 13:8 says:

“The Lamb who was slain from the creation of the world.”

God knew sin would happen. He also knew He would send Jesus. He allowed pain in order to show His mercy, justice, and incredible love.

Romans 5:8 says:

“God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Truth 4: God uses even suffering for good.

Romans 8:28 reminds us:

“In all things, God works for the good of those who love Him…”

And James 1:2–4 tells us:

“Consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials… because you know the testing of your faith produces perseverance.”

Evil is real. But the story isn’t over. Revelation 21:4–5 promises that God will one day wipe every tear and destroy evil forever.

Final Truth: We may not fully understand God's reasons—but we can trust His character.

Psalm 145:17 says:

“The Lord is righteous in all His ways and faithful in all He does.”

James 1:13 reminds us:

“God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He tempt anyone.”

God didn’t create evil—but He allows free will for the sake of real love. And in His mercy, He gave us Jesus, who defeats sin and death forever.

Question 3: How Do We Hear God’s Voice?

This question may sound simple, but let’s be real: it’s one of the most personal, painful, and misunderstood parts of the Christian life.

You’ve probably prayed, “God, just show me!”Maybe you’ve asked:

“Should I end this friendship?”“Was that thought from God or just my own brain?”“Why does everyone else say they ‘hear’ God and I feel… nothing?”

If that’s you—you’re not broken. You’re not doing it wrong. You’re not the one girl God skipped over.But what you’re feeling? It’s real. And it matters.

So let’s talk about what it actually means to hear from God.

1. God Does Speak—and Always Has

From the very first pages of Scripture, God speaks.He speaks creation into being (Genesis 1).He speaks to prophets, kings, shepherds, and teenagers.Jesus Himself is called “The Word made flesh” (John 1:14).

So yes—God speaks. But the primary, most reliable way He speaks is through His Word.

2 Timothy 3:16 says:

“All Scripture is God-breathed and useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness.”

If you're not opening your Bible, you’re likely missing 90% of what God has already said.

His Word is the tuning fork. It’s how you learn the tone of His voice. The kindness in His correction. The truth that cuts through confusion.

2. But What About the Whisper? The Nudge? The Dream?

God also speaks through the Holy Spirit—our helper, guide, and teacher (John 14:26). Sometimes, it’s a whisper during worship. Sometimes, it’s a phrase that keeps echoing in your spirit. Sometimes, it’s a dream, a thought, or a picture in your mind. Sometimes, it's a holy silence that holds you when you have no words.

But here’s where it gets tricky: You might think,“Wait, was that God—or just me?”“Is this the Spirit—or my anxiety talking?”

That’s a normal struggle.

Here’s the biblical truth:

1 John 4:1 says, “Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God.”

What does it mean to test it?

Ask:

• Does it align with Scripture? (God will never contradict Himself.)

• Does it lead to repentance, peace, love, or truth?

• Does it make me more like Jesus or more focused on myself?

• Is it consistent with God's character—gracious, just, holy?

3. But What If I Still Don’t Hear Anything?

This is where some of you might feel frustrated or even ashamed.Maybe you’ve prayed and begged and heard… silence.

Listen to me carefully: God is not ignoring you.

Silence is not the same as absence.

Sometimes, God is growing your trust in the quiet.Sometimes, He has already spoken—and He’s waiting for obedience.And sometimes, like in 1 Kings 19, God speaks in a whisper—not the fire or wind.

“After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.” (1 Kings 19:12)

If you’re only listening for fireworks, you’ll miss the whisper.

4. Hearing God is a Relationship—Not a Trick

Let’s stop treating God like a vending machine.He’s not a fortune cookie or a genie.He’s your Father. Your Shepherd. Your Friend.

Jesus said in John 10:27:

“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.”

You were created to recognize His voice. But that recognition is grown through time, practice, and intimacy. Not performance.

So here’s what you do:

• Stay in the Word. That’s your anchor.

• Pray with honesty. God already knows your thoughts.

• Worship regularly. Praise clears the static in your soul.

• Practice stillness. Give God space to speak.

• Obey the last thing He said. Often, clarity comes after obedience.

5. You Can Hear God—But You’re Not in Control of How

This is important: God speaks in different ways to different people.Some get pictures. Some get impressions. Some hear through people or dreams.But all of us are invited to listen.

The question isn’t, “Will God speak to me?”The question is, “Will I be quiet long enough—and surrendered enough—to listen?”

Jeremiah 29:13 says:

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”

Girl, that promise includes you. Even when you feel unsure. Even when it’s quiet. Even when you’re scared.

Final Word

If you feel like you’ve been praying and hearing nothing, let this episode be your reminder:

• You are not forgotten.

• You are not failing.

• God’s silence is never rejection—it might be invitation.

• And the more time you spend with Him, the more you’ll begin to recognize His whisper in your soul.

  
  

Keep leaning in.Keep trusting the Shepherd.He speaks. And He speaks to you.

Final Thoughts

To Faye, to Maddi, to every girl listening:

You’re asking bold, brave questions. You’re showing up. You’re digging deep. And God sees that.

Don’t stop asking. Don’t stop seeking.

And don’t ever believe the lie that your questions are too big or too messy for God.

He welcomes your wonder.

He meets you in your wrestling.

And He promises that if you seek Him—you will find Him.

Girl, you are wildly loved.

I’m so proud of you!