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Dear Younger Me | The Post-College Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The Post-College Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The Post-College Chapter

Okay babes, grab your chai tea latte or your iced caramel macchiato, whatever your go-to girly drink is, because today we are diving into...

Dear Younger Me | The College Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The College Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The College Chapter

Alright, besties. Deep breath. Because today, we launch a whole new chapter of our Dear Younger Me series. Are you here for it? I sure...

Dear Younger Me | The High School Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The High School Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The High School Chapter

Well…. hi hi hiiii sweet friends. Welcome back to Dear Younger Me , the series where we’ve been taking a walk down memory lane, writing...

BONUS Q&A: Real Talk About Mean Girls, Toxic Friends & Caring What People Think

BONUS Q&A: Real Talk About Mean Girls, Toxic Friends & Caring What People Think

BONUS Q&A: Real Talk About Mean Girls, Toxic Friends & Caring What People Think

What is up my summer squad! Tell me, are you lounging at the pool right now or sipping on your Starbucks, Summer Skies refresher?...

Dear Younger Me | The Middle School Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The Middle School Chapter

Dear Younger Me | The Middle School Chapter

Okay sunshine squad—pause the poolside playlist, put down the popsicle, and give me your ears for just a second. I know it’s summer and...

New Series Drop: Dear Younger Me | The Elementary Chapter

New Series Drop: Dear Younger Me | The Elementary Chapter

New Series Drop: Dear Younger Me | The Elementary Chapter

Well, hey hey hey, my beautiful queens! What is up?! Hey… I am so glad you showed up today. For real, it wouldn’t be the same without...

More from the 'Gram

Sometimes “It doesn’t matter” isn’t actually about where she wants to eat.

Sometimes it’s easier to have no preference.
No opinion.
No strong feeling.
No answer someone could disagree with.

Because somewhere along the way, a girl can start learning that being easy to be around feels safer than being fully known.

So she shrugs.
Whatever.
You pick.
It doesn’t matter.

And slowly, without anyone noticing, she gets really good at disappearing inside the room.

But then you look at Jesus.

He asked people questions.
What do you want?
What do you think?
Who do you say that I am?
What do you want Me to do for you?

Not because He lacked the answers.
Because He wanted them to use their voice.

Mama, your daughter does not need to be the loudest girl in the room.

But she does need to know that humility is not the same thing as erasing herself.

That kindness doesn’t require silence.

That belonging shouldn’t cost her honesty.

That having an opinion doesn’t make her difficult.

That saying what she needs doesn’t make her too much.

So when she says, “I don’t care,” maybe sometimes ask again.

“But if it DID matter… what would you choose?”

Because today it might be pizza toppings.

But someday it may be a boundary.

A conviction.
A relationship.
Her faith.

Raise a daughter who knows she can gently, confidently say: “This is what I think. This is what I need. This is what I believe.”

Because the voice she learns not to shrink today... may be the voice God asks her to use tomorrow. It matters.

Sometimes “It doesn’t matter” isn’t actually about where she wants to eat.

Sometimes it’s easier to have no preference.
No opinion.
No strong feeling.
No answer someone could disagree with.

Because somewhere along the way, a girl can start learning that being easy to be around feels safer than being fully known.

So she shrugs.
Whatever.
You pick.
It doesn’t matter.

And slowly, without anyone noticing, she gets really good at disappearing inside the room.

But then you look at Jesus.

He asked people questions.
What do you want?
What do you think?
Who do you say that I am?
What do you want Me to do for you?

Not because He lacked the answers.
Because He wanted them to use their voice.

Mama, your daughter does not need to be the loudest girl in the room.

But she does need to know that humility is not the same thing as erasing herself.

That kindness doesn’t require silence.

That belonging shouldn’t cost her honesty.

That having an opinion doesn’t make her difficult.

That saying what she needs doesn’t make her too much.

So when she says, “I don’t care,” maybe sometimes ask again.

“But if it DID matter… what would you choose?”

Because today it might be pizza toppings.

But someday it may be a boundary.

A conviction.
A relationship.
Her faith.

Raise a daughter who knows she can gently, confidently say: “This is what I think. This is what I need. This is what I believe.”

Because the voice she learns not to shrink today... may be the voice God asks her to use tomorrow. It matters.

While we’re on hiatus, we’re REWINDING ⏪🎧 and ohhhhh this one. THIS ONE. S2 E35: THE LONELIEST GIRL IN THE ROOM. 🥺

For the girl who has friends… but still feels lonely.

Who’s technically included… but somehow still feels outside.

Who opens Instagram and suddenly everyone has a best friend, a plan, a group chat, a social life and apparently a professional photographer following them around??? 😭

Meanwhile you’re like hi yes does anyone actually SEE me?!

Girl. We talked about THAT lonely.

The sitting-in-a-room-full-of-people lonely.

The “why wasn’t I invited?” lonely.

The friendship-changed-and-nobody-warned-me lonely.

The God-feels-weirdly-quiet-right-now lonely.

And because we refuse to slap a ✨cute Christian quote✨ over an actual ache and call it healed—we went deeper.

Hannah. Scripture. Real-life ways to get out of your own head, bring the hurt into the light, and remember that feeling unseen does not mean you ARE unseen.

Basically: loneliness, but we’re not letting her run the group chat.

This was the finale of Holy but Heated: Too Spicy for the Group Chat, Too Real to Ignore and she STILL hits.

🎧 S2 E35: The Loneliest Girl in the Room

Grab your AirPods.
Grab your emotional-support iced drink.

Circle allllll the way back with us today. REWINDING NOW. ⏪ Let’s GOOOOO!!!

While we’re on hiatus, we’re REWINDING ⏪🎧 and ohhhhh this one. THIS ONE. S2 E35: THE LONELIEST GIRL IN THE ROOM. 🥺

For the girl who has friends… but still feels lonely.

Who’s technically included… but somehow still feels outside.

Who opens Instagram and suddenly everyone has a best friend, a plan, a group chat, a social life and apparently a professional photographer following them around??? 😭

Meanwhile you’re like hi yes does anyone actually SEE me?!

Girl. We talked about THAT lonely.

The sitting-in-a-room-full-of-people lonely.

The “why wasn’t I invited?” lonely.

The friendship-changed-and-nobody-warned-me lonely.

The God-feels-weirdly-quiet-right-now lonely.

And because we refuse to slap a ✨cute Christian quote✨ over an actual ache and call it healed—we went deeper.

Hannah. Scripture. Real-life ways to get out of your own head, bring the hurt into the light, and remember that feeling unseen does not mean you ARE unseen.

Basically: loneliness, but we’re not letting her run the group chat.

This was the finale of Holy but Heated: Too Spicy for the Group Chat, Too Real to Ignore and she STILL hits.

🎧 S2 E35: The Loneliest Girl in the Room

Grab your AirPods.
Grab your emotional-support iced drink.

Circle allllll the way back with us today. REWINDING NOW. ⏪ Let’s GOOOOO!!!

Sometimes the funniest girl in the room is genuinely just… really stinking funny. And sometimes—she learned that if she can make you laugh at the thing that hurt her, nobody will realize how much it actually did.

That’s the part I don’t want us to miss.

Because humor can become this brilliant little escape hatch:

I told you what happened.

I just made sure you laughed before you could worry about me.

And I keep thinking about Elijah.

This wildly faithful, courageous man has this massive mountaintop moment with God…
and then completely falls apart.

And God doesn’t stand over him asking where the strong version went.

He comes close.
He feeds him.
Lets him sleep.
Stays with him.
No performance required.

I want our girls to know that kind of love.

The kind where they can walk into the room without the punchline.

Where they can say, “Actually… that really hurt.”

And nobody rushes to fix it.
Nobody tells them they’re being dramatic.
Nobody needs them to make it lighter.
We laugh with our girls. A LOT.

But may we also become the place where they learn:

You never have to make your pain easier for me to hold.

You can put the joke down here.
I’m still staying.

Sometimes the funniest girl in the room is genuinely just… really stinking funny. And sometimes—she learned that if she can make you laugh at the thing that hurt her, nobody will realize how much it actually did.

That’s the part I don’t want us to miss.

Because humor can become this brilliant little escape hatch:

I told you what happened.

I just made sure you laughed before you could worry about me.

And I keep thinking about Elijah.

This wildly faithful, courageous man has this massive mountaintop moment with God…
and then completely falls apart.

And God doesn’t stand over him asking where the strong version went.

He comes close.
He feeds him.
Lets him sleep.
Stays with him.
No performance required.

I want our girls to know that kind of love.

The kind where they can walk into the room without the punchline.

Where they can say, “Actually… that really hurt.”

And nobody rushes to fix it.
Nobody tells them they’re being dramatic.
Nobody needs them to make it lighter.
We laugh with our girls. A LOT.

But may we also become the place where they learn:

You never have to make your pain easier for me to hold.

You can put the joke down here.
I’m still staying.

CIRCLE BACK!! 🎧 Because some podcast episodes deserve another lap.

Grab a friend.
Snag Mom.
Find the coziest blanket in the house.
Light something that smells aggressively like pumpkin. 😂☕️🎃

Then pretend it’s October for 20 minutes and circle back to an episode of the FR, Let’s Talk podcast you missed—or one that hit so good the first time it deserves a replay! 4 ENTIRE seasons, sis… not shortage of episodes!!!

We’re talking Jesus. Girl stuff. Real life. The things you actually want to talk about. And somehow it’s approximately 87% better when listened to under a blanket with something cinnamon nearby. We don’t make the rules.🍁

PODCAST CIRCLE BACK = officially your excuse to grab your people + cozy up + press play.

August outside.
October in our hearts.
Jesus in our earbuds.

CIRCLE BACK!! 🎧 Because some podcast episodes deserve another lap.

Grab a friend.
Snag Mom.
Find the coziest blanket in the house.
Light something that smells aggressively like pumpkin. 😂☕️🎃

Then pretend it’s October for 20 minutes and circle back to an episode of the FR, Let’s Talk podcast you missed—or one that hit so good the first time it deserves a replay! 4 ENTIRE seasons, sis… not shortage of episodes!!!

We’re talking Jesus. Girl stuff. Real life. The things you actually want to talk about. And somehow it’s approximately 87% better when listened to under a blanket with something cinnamon nearby. We don’t make the rules.🍁

PODCAST CIRCLE BACK = officially your excuse to grab your people + cozy up + press play.

August outside.
October in our hearts.
Jesus in our earbuds.

SHE. IS. BACK.🚨💌😭

The highly anticipated. The deeply missed. The “wait, when are these coming back?!” email you have been waiting ALL SUMMER FOR.

YOUR WEEKLY STAY SALTY, SIS EMAIL IS OFFICIALLY BACK TODAY.

I know. Try to remain calm.

Actually don’t. WE WAITED ALL SUMMER FOR THIS. 😂

Faith. Real talk. Things we need to discuss. A little chaos. A lot of Jesus. And all the random goodness you didn’t know you needed landing directly in your inbox every single week.

Basically, your favorite little interruption of the week has RETURNED.

⏰ 10AM MST, babes.

Check your inbox.
Check your spam.
Alert the group chat.
Cancel your 10AM plans (Ok, ok. School has to take priority I guess!🫪)

This is an EVENT.

You waited.
I delivered.
You’re welcome.
Welcome back.

Tuesday tea… coming in HOT.

SHE. IS. BACK.🚨💌😭

The highly anticipated. The deeply missed. The “wait, when are these coming back?!” email you have been waiting ALL SUMMER FOR.

YOUR WEEKLY STAY SALTY, SIS EMAIL IS OFFICIALLY BACK TODAY.

I know. Try to remain calm.

Actually don’t. WE WAITED ALL SUMMER FOR THIS. 😂

Faith. Real talk. Things we need to discuss. A little chaos. A lot of Jesus. And all the random goodness you didn’t know you needed landing directly in your inbox every single week.

Basically, your favorite little interruption of the week has RETURNED.

⏰ 10AM MST, babes.

Check your inbox.
Check your spam.
Alert the group chat.
Cancel your 10AM plans (Ok, ok. School has to take priority I guess!🫪)

This is an EVENT.

You waited.
I delivered.
You’re welcome.
Welcome back.

Tuesday tea… coming in HOT.

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